“The role of parents in the education of their children cannot be overestimated.” ~Unknown
When you ask parents from any country in the world, what they ask their children at the end of the day about school, their question is very similar:
“What did you learn today?”
The disconcerting thing is that the answer is almost always exactly the same.
With some of the work that we are doing in Parkland School Division, we are really trying to engage parents in the learning of their child by opening the door into the classroom. Through the use of blogs, twitter, and other social media outlets, the question can change to something similar to, “I saw that you were learning about (blank) today; can you tell me more about it?”
Different questions usually get different responses. Improve the question and you are more likely to get a better answer.
Parent Participation vs Parent Engagement
Although the more parents can have a positive presence in our schools, the more they will build relationships within the school community, engagement is something different. Children are shown to have a much better chance at success if their parent is actively engaged and reinforces the learning that is happening in the school. Case in point; if you want to improve your child’s reading, read to them at a young age and model what you want to see.
Yet as students get older, many parents are uncertain about the learning that is happening and feel uncomfortable with the content. The benefit of a lot of learning in our schools today is that it is not solely focused on learning content, but skills and process which are important aspects in a learner’s development. Being able to engage in the process with your child, like reading, will help improve their learning. That type of engagement brings learning to a different level in the home.
Are we becoming illiterate?
One of the most influential articles that I have read was by Will Richardson on the notion of expanding literacy. In it, Will discusses The National Council of Teachers of English definition of “21st Century Literacies”, and how many adults, not just kids, are becoming or illiterate. For many, the notion of literacy boils down to reading and writing, yet it is much more.
“Literacy has always been a collection of cultural and communicative practices shared among members of particular groups. As society and technology change, so does literacy. Because technology has increased the intensity and complexity of literate environments, the twenty-first century demands that a literate person possess a wide range of abilities and competencies, many literacies. These literacies—from reading online newspapers to participating in virtual classrooms—are multiple, dynamic, and malleable. As in the past, they are inextricably linked with particular histories, life possibilities and social trajectories of individuals and groups.” NCTE
So with that in mind, what are parents doing at home? Are they creating websites with their children, assessing what is good and bad information, creating videos and podcasts, and so on? The majority of our students see the Internet as a place of consumption, not creation. We need to shift that focus.
Mitch Resnick challenged this notion of consumption when he stated:
“We wouldn’t consider someone literate if they could read but couldn’t write. Are we literate if we consume content online, but don’t produce?”
Based on this ever-changing definition, we have to ask, “Are we literate?”
Keeping Kids Safe
People are quick to jump on using these new types of technologies as either “dumbing down” education (David Crystal’s research shows that reading and writing improve through the use of mobile devices as opposed to the other way around) or that kids will be unsafe. The reality is that schools in partnership with parents, need to guide children to not only be safe, but to leverage these technologies so that children will have opportunities that we did not.
Carlene Oleksyn, a parent and pharmacist, has immersed herself in the use of social media, not only for the benefit of her own learning, but to ensure that she safely guides her children. In a recent post on her blog titled, “The Talk”, she shares a conversation that she has with her children:
It started like this:
“Boys, when I need to hire someone do you know what one of the first things is I do?”
Nope, they had no idea.
“I google them,” I said. “I see what they post on Facebook, Twitter, blogs. If they have posted anything that is calling someone else down, is sexually inappropriate, or if they’ve made blatantly disrespectful comments on other people’s postings, I would tend not to hire that person.”
The difference between Carlene and many is not this talk, but it is the credibility that Carlene has from immersing herself in using these technologies herself. By having a Twitter account, blog, amongst other things, she has learned how to keep safe by stepping out and looking around first, as opposed to simply letting her kids run wild when they reach the age they are allowed to use social media based on a company’s terms of service.
From her experience, she is able to give some very relevant advice:
I think as parents we need to do three things for our kids:
Be aware of what our children are doing on the internet
Be on sites with them and teach as they go.
Be examples with our own digital identity.
Carlene understands that the world is changing, so she is taking advantage of the learning that can be done while helping her children navigate some murky waters to find a much more positive place. She is setting a high standard for her kids not only through her words, but through her actions.
Kids existing online is not enough. Many schools talk about the notion of “digital citizenship” but simply being a “citizen” is not the heights we should be aiming for offline, so why is it online?
Through my work, I have tried to focus on the idea of “Digital Leadership”; the notion of using the technologies that we have to make a positive difference in the lives of others. I try to model this simply by writing this post and trying to build more awareness of the opportunities that technology affords parents and children in learning. Some kids are doing amazing things.
Millgrove School was recently highlighted on Global TV for their work on trying to use social media for learning, but by doing good for their community and hoping to inspire others around the globe. Isn’t that the standard we should be aiming for as school communities?
To be successful, educators do not only need the support of parents, we need their engagement. The door is opening more every day to your child’s classroom. Are you ready to step through?